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Teen Intercourse Ethics in Islamic view

Islam has set the behavior in adolescents. Such behavior is restrictions based on religious values. Therefore, such behavior must be observed, maintained, and implemented by the teens. Behavior of the thresholds in the association are:

1. Closing the Aurat

Islam requires men and women to close the aurot in order to maintain honor and probity. Aurot is a member of that body must be covered and should not be disclosed to non-mahram men, especially to the opposite sex in order not to type so as not to arouse lust and the cause of temptation.

Aurot for-for the members of the body between the navel and the knees while the women aurot for the whole body except the face and both hands.

In addition aurot, wear clothes on so tight can not notice the curve of the body, and also should not be transparent or translucent thin that.

2. Avoiding fornication

Intercourse between men with women in the permit until the limit does not open the possibility of sin. Islam is a religion that guard the purity, relationships in which Islam is based on social values of chastity. In association with the opposite sex must be kept a distance so there is no chance of sexual crimes, which in turn will destroy the perpetrators and the general public.

In the Qur'an Allah says in Surat Al-Isra 'verse 32:

It means: "And come not nigh to fornication, adultery Indeed it is a cruel act. and a bad way "

In order to maintain the purity of youth associations in order to avoid fornication, Islam has made the boundaries as follows:

a.             A man can not both be alone with a non-mahram woman. If men and women in a quiet  place so that the third is satan, first looked at each other, and hold, and eventually leads to adultery, it's all satan persuasion.

b.            The men and women who are not muhrim should not physically touch. Touching forbidden in Islam is a deliberate touch and accompanied by lust. But that was not intentional touching without lust is not prohibited.

Procedures Teen Intercourse

All religions and traditions have regulated procedures pergualan teenagers. Teachings of Islam as a way of life of his people, also has set up procedures for adolescents are based association religious values. The procedure includes:

a. Saying Greetings

Greeting when meeting with a friend or someone else fellow Muslims, is a prayer greeting. Means the greeting we have prayed for these friends.

b. Request for Permission

Request permission here in the sense that we should not underestimate the rights or property to a friend when we use the property of friends, we must ask permission first

c. Respect for elders and love the younger

Teenagers as young people should respect the older and draw lessons from their lives. In addition, teenagers also have to love the brother of the younger, and most importantly is to provide guidance and assistance to those on the right path and loving.

d. Be polite and not arrogant

In the mix, emphasis on good behavior is emphasized in order to feel good friends with our friends. Then the basic attitude of a teenager who usually want to see more of her friends was not applied in Islam even arrogant despicable character who is hated by God.

e. Talking with a polite word

Islam teaches that when we say, utamakanlah useful words, with a gentle voice, with a natural style and braggadocio.

f. No insulting each other

Insulting or swearing is forbidden in Islamic law that the association should avoid insulting each other among friends.

g. There must be mutual hatred and jealousy

Will impact envy may develop into hatred, which in turn lead to rupture good relations between friends. Envy is a liver disease that makes our hearts can feel calm and a good reprehensible nature before God and man.

h. Filling leisure time with useful activities

Adolescence should be used for activities that benefit youth must divide his time with the subjective and efficiently, by dividing time into 3 parts: one third to worship God, one third for himself and the third for others.

i. Solicitation to do good

The person who gave instructions to a friend on the right path will be rewarded like a good friend who did it, and call to do good is a form of affection for a friend.

Thus some teenagers association procedures based moral values and teachings of Islam. These ordinances should be used as a guide for teens in dealing with his friends.